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Talking your way to an enhanced appearance

A pleasing appearance does not depend entirely on physical beauty but is also influenced by the gait at which he walks and the way he carries himself. A person who may look beautiful can become ugly the moment he opens his mouth.

Taking stock of the way you communicate with others will help you improve your appearance. A glib talker will be more attractive than a person who stands timidly quiet, not because of a lack of wisdom but because he has nothing else to say.


If you are knowledgeable on any topic, then you can walk "the talk" and make yourself the most beautiful or handsome person in the room. A good talker captivates his audience without being overbearing: but be careful to not to overdo it by monopolizing the conversation.

Becoming a good talker or speaker works hand in hand with possessing proper manners. You may be good in talking but if you do not possess the proper manners, then your general appearance suffers or id ruined. Avoid giving curt answers like "yes" or "no" because it will make you appear blunt.

What you lack in the "looks" department can be compensated for by using a very good talking stance to improve your appearance. Engaging your associates in intelligent and polite conversation will always improve your appearance and reputation – which is good.

A proper talking stance includes the quality of voice you use when conversing with others. Avoid being too loud or condescending, as this will, in many cases, turn other people off and will taint your general appearance to them. A voice that is shrill or "falsetto-like" will give other people a bad impression of you. Do not use an angry voice when talking with others even if you are accustomed to using this type of voice. There is always an opportunity to change bad habits!

While talking, show your interest not only in the topic or issues of the day, but also in the people around you. Being kind to those in the conversation circle will earn you higher points, appearance wise.

You may inject humor in your conversation but tread carefully because there is a thin line between humor and bad taste. Never make fun of others because it is a black mark on your appearance. Always make your conversations pleasant and decent.While you may not be the most handsome or beautiful face in a room, make sure you exude a good appearance by being smart, respectful, decent, and a good conversationalist.

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